What Is OkCupid?
OkCupid is not a standard online dating site. It was designed to use matching algorithms and data collection as a way to connect people, and as a general rule, we don’t trust any algorithm over common sense and patience. However, the site has found a unique niche as being one of the most socially inclusive online dating sites. As a result, it tends to attract a more colorful and artistic crowd than sites like Match or eHarmony, but it also draws a lot of people who are looking for non-traditional relationships, which is not as common on those sites.
Who Should Join OkCupid?
We like to think of OkCupid as the dating site for the “cool kids.” The majority of OkCupid members are between the ages of 21 and 30, but you can find some singles on the site who are well into their 60s. OkCupid is the perfect dating site for people with an artistic streak, and it attracts a primarily left-leaning crowd. It is also a great solution for members of the LGBTQ community who are looking for something more than just a hookup.
Many people have found lasting love on OkCupid, but the site also has a very strong reputation for fostering open relationships, hookups, and casual dating. In fact, it is one of the few dating sites that asks you if you are open to a non-monogamous relationship during the sign-up process. All in all, OKC is one of the best dating sites out there for most daters, but really excels for liberal, open-minded daters.
How to Write a OkCupid Profile
The OkCupid profile is one of the most in-depth profiles that you will come across on any dating site. This is great, because it means you’ll probably learn more about potential dates here than you would on another site, but it also gives you enough space that it becomes very easy to say too much.
The sections of the profile breakdown are as follows:
- About Me
- Aspirations/Current Goals
- Talent
- My Traits (your beliefs)
- Needs (your values)
- Hobbies
- Moments (how would you describe your perfect day?)
- Secrets (don’t admit to murder, but be willing to give a funny story or something that’s a little embarrassing.)
- Dating (this is where you write about what you want in a relationship)
It seems like a lot, but you want to make sure that you actually fill everything out. Keep it positive, forward-looking, and be confident when you talk about your interests and aspirations. You don’t want to come across as defensive or self-effacing. Try to avoid just writing lists, but also try not to force humor. If you have something funny to write, go for it. However, trying to be funny can sometimes come across as trying too hard...

OkCupid Photos
The rules for OkCupid photos are the same as a lot of the other dating sites we’ve discussed. You want to aim for between two and six great photos with at least one headshot and bodyshot, and between two and four photos that give a sense of your character. The difference here is that people appreciate creativity in your photos more here than pretty much anywhere else. Don’t be afraid to fly your flag proudly. Also, OkCupid allows you to link your Instagram account to your profile. If you do that, it will let anyone on the site view your Instagram feed. It might be a good idea to look through your feed and clean it up before you share it with potential dates.